Relational Coaching

Relational Coaching — based on RLT training

Relational Coaching is my newest offering, for couples who want to change the patterns that keep them stuck — the same argument on repeat, growing distance, or friction that never quite resolves.

It is founded on Relational Life Therapy (RLT) coaching training — a direct, transparent, practice-based approach: we map the cycle that keeps you stuck, interrupt unhelpful habits in the moment, and practice new relational skills in real time, so you can bring them home with confidence.

The work rests on three pillars: spotting the “losing stances” that sabotage intimacy (needing to be right, controlling, unbridled self-expression, retaliation, withdrawal); learning to operate from your Functional Adult instead of a reactive, younger part of yourself; and building full-spectrum intimacy — physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual — through asking for what you want, healthy boundaries, and genuine repair.

Who this is for

• Couples stuck in repetitive arguments, feeling emotionally distant, or exhausted by the same unyielding friction
• Partners who want clear tools to change how they interact in real time, not months of rehashing past grievances

This is coaching, offered by me as a pastoral counselor. Sessions are 90 minutes and held online; coaching is $250 per session, and it starts with an initial consultation. VIP Access members may choose online or in person at their location.